May 18 2009
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Aretha Franklin said it best:
R-E-S-P-E-C-T
We all want it, but we don’t always get it. Especially in the world of customer service.
I’m sure many of you who work directly with customers have had your share of ungracious, ungrateful, and downright rude customers. It’s easy to want to turn around and give a little of that back to them. Heed my advice…
Don’t.
Always, ALWAYS treat your customers with respect. Even the ugly ones.
Treating someone with respect goes a long way in the customer service world. People remember how they are treated. Nobody wants to be treated like they don’t matter. As the saying goes: Treat others as you want to be treated.
So what does respect mean?
It means all the things we’ve been reviewing in Things You Should Do in Customer Service.
• Be polite
• Look the customer in the eye
• Smile
• Pay attention to what they’re saying
• Show them you care
• Don’t belittle them
• Don’t be rude
• Help them however you can
The list goes on….
What about the difficult and sometimes awful customers? Treat them as you would any other customer.
Trust me. I know it’s not always easy to put up with someone who’s being a complete jerk to you. Especially if they are yelling and cursing you out. (I’ve had that done to me too). In all situations, you can handle the customer with utter respect while still making sure you don’t have to put up with further abuse. Here are some tips on how to handle different types of difficult customers:
1. The Disgruntled Customer: This is the customer who is clearly not happy and wants you to know it. They will automatically pile their entire story of why they aren’t happy into your lap and expect you to not only take the blame, but clean up the mess.
What to do? You listen. Show empathy. Apologize. Repeat the problem back to them. Show them you understand and will take care of it for them. Let them know exactly what you are doing and then do it.
Nine times out of ten, once the customer knows you’ve taken control of the situation and are handling it, they will automatically calm down and appreciate you helping them.
2. The Bully: I’ve dealt with plenty of these types of customers. This is the customer who from the get-go has decided that the only way to get what he wants is to put you on the defensive immediately. Usually it’s because they’ve waited until the last minute to get something done, and now it’s your problem to get it done with little to no time to do it. These are the same people who will usually threaten to go to the competition or go over your head (or both) if you don’t fix their problem.
What do you do? Stay calm. Again – listen and get the facts. Make sure you know what the problem is. Tell the customer exactly what you are going to do, then do it. In these situations you usually have to pull a lot of resources in a short time to get things done. Do NOT make promises to the customer unless you are absolutely certain you can come through on them. Instead of making a promise you may not be able to keep, reassure them with phrases such as “I can’t promise you we will absolutely have this fixed until I can talk to the people I need to – but I CAN promise you I will do everything in my power to make it happen”.
3. The Screamer: This is the customer who just wants to yell and let you and everyone within earshot know they are unhappy.
What to do? Listen. Show empathy. Any response back to them should be in a calm, quiet voice. Apologize for their inconvenience and situation. Stay CALM. It’s easy to get rattled or angry when someone is yelling at you. Once the customer has had a chance to vent and gives you an opening to speak, take immediate control and let them know that you are there to help. Again, most of the time they just want someone to listen (hence the screaming). If they know you are going to fix the problem – especially in the way they want, they will simmer down and let you. And they will be even more ecstatic when you do fix it for them.
4. The Verbally Abusive Customer: This is probably the most difficult customer to deal with – and I fortunately only had to deal with a few during my years of customer service. This is the customer who is a combination all three customers discussed so far. They’re unhappy, they will bully you, blame you, scream at you – and unfortunately will either be cursing indirectly at you or will make a direct verbal attack on you.
What do you do? While you always want to maintain your cool and stay calm – and you should NEVER reciprocate in kind if a customer is behaving this way towards you – it does NOT give anyone the right to treat you this way. You do not have to stand there and put up with it.
There are two different methods you can take here.
• If you have a strong spine and feel you can handle customers in any situation, follow everything we’ve discussed as before. If the customer is being abusive, ask him politely – but firmly – to please refrain from speaking to you with foul language and/or verbal abuse. If he continues to do so, you have every right to inform the customer that while you want to help him, unless he is able to speak to you calmly you will have to hang up until he can do so. (Or in the situation you are face-to-face, you can ask him to leave). While it may seem counter-active tell a customer this, I have actually done so on more than one occasion. In those situations, the customer has always calmed down enough to talk to me civilly. The trick is getting them to understand you actually want to help them.
• If you are someone who doesn’t like confrontation or are simply uncomfortable dealing with this type of customer, then you should ask a manager to get involved. Managers are there for escalated situations, and an irate customer is indeed considered an escalated matter. There is no shame in asking for help if you need it.
In all my years of dealing with irate customers, both as an account coordinator and as a manager, I have never once had one come back and not thank me personally for my help in the end. Why? Because I treated them with respect and took them seriously – even if I felt they didn’t deserve it. I may not have always been able to give them exactly what they wanted, but the customers always knew I did everything in my power to help them out, and that’s all they were looking for in the long run.
Hopefully these kinds of difficult customers will be few and far between for you. And while it may not seem worth it to treat customers with respect when you aren’t getting it back from them, it’s the customers who DO treat you with respect that make the difference at the end of the day. And the more customers you treat well, the better you will be treated.
I promise.